my words... my say

Love this comic <3 Baby Wren is soooo cute!

[Quoted from drkellyflanagan.com/2012/03/02/marriage-is-for-losers/] You can be right, or you can be married; take your pick.  I can’t remember who told me that, but I do remember that they were only half-joking. The other half, the serious half, is exceedingly important. This is why. Many therapists aren’t crazy about doing marital therapy. It’s complicated and messy, and it often feels out of control. In the worst case scenario, the therapist has front row seats to a regularly-scheduled prize fight. But I love to do marital therapy. Why? Maybe I enjoy the work because I keep one simple principle in mind: if marriage is going to work, it needs to become a contest to see which spouse is going to lose the most , and it needs to be a race that goes down to the wire. When it comes to winning and losing, I think there are three kinds of marriages. In the first kind of marriage, both spouses are competing to win, and it’s a duel to the death. Husbands and wives are armed with...

[Quoted from http://www.purposefairy.com/ ] Here is a list of 15 things which, if you give up on them, will make your life a lot easier and much, much happier. We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering – and instead of letting them all go, instead of allowing ourselves to be stress free and happy – we cling on to them. Not anymore. Starting today we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. Ready? Here we go: 1. Give up your need to always be right. There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make?...

I came to realise, the one person I truly cannot live without in my life is my best friend. I love you Naya!

This song resonates to me right now :'(

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I used to love and believe in this song... now I don't </3

Guys, for your information in case you did not know, it is NOT ok to play with fire when you are already attached. Your girlfriend should NEVER be your 'backup' in case the fire fizzles out. Your girlfriend could easily do the same to you, but there is a reason why she didn't. The most basic element of any relationship is RESPECT and it should be reciprocated. Do not think that after the fire fizzles out, she'll still be there waiting for you with open arms. You are a fool for thinking so. Dream on. And oh yes, karma's a bitch.

I'm tired to hearing words that bears no meanings at all.. afterall talk is cheap. It's executioning what has been said that matters the most. Ever heard of NATO? No Action Talk Only. If something really means a lot to you, you will execute it no matter what, because you know how much it meant to yourself or the other party. By not doing so, it really sayd a lot about how important that task or person is to you. My lesson learnt is to be indifferent about things, not to get too emotionally involved. slowly time after time, my heart has been trained to be made of steel.

10 Things Your Dog Would Tell You....  1. My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years. Any separation from you will be painful: remember that before you get me.  2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.  3. Place your trust in me- it is crucial to my well being. 4. Do not be angry at me for long, and do not lock me up as punishment. 5. You have your work, your entertainment,and your friends. I only have you. 6. Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don't understands your words, I understand your voice when it is speaking to me.  7. Be aware that how ever you treat me, I will never forget.  8. Remember before you hit me that I have teeth that could easily hurt you, but I choose not to bite you because I love you.  9. Before you scold me for being uncooperative,obstinate,or lazy, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I might not be getting the right food, or I have been out too long, or my heart is getting to old and weak. 10. Take care of...

Had a good training session today... Free from all the stress and outside influence, and focus is all on rowing. Kinda miss this kind of feeling, of rowing without worrying about this and that... But I suppose that's just part and parcel of being a part of a team. Looking forward to many more great training sessions! =) xoxo, Mabel

I am not a big fan of last minute 'surprises' when it comes to work or things that are high at stake. Especially when the responsibilities are high. I love doing things properly right from the beginning, but I realised as I go along, sometimes, things really will not go as planned, so it's up to me to adjust my mentality and go with the flow. And go with the flow I shall... PS: When it comes to fun, I'm all about spontaneity baby! xoxo, Mabel

Have been so fed up recently... At work, at home, even when doing my hobby!!! I really need a break... longing to laze on the beach, basking in the sun, swimming in my own private pool... Where's that beach holiday of mine...? :'(