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S/He died doing what s/he love...

How many times have you heard the phrase, "at least the person died doing what he love" whenever a tragedy happened? 

I was telling my sister the other day about my thoughts on this matter. I engage in the outdoors and sports because I love it, but never once have I set out to do something thinking it will be my last time doing it. That phrase is more of a consolation to those who are affected by the death of a love one, and I am sure they are aware that these words bring no actual comfort, but in trying times, you will hold on to any comforting idea as a life buoy. 

I can't help but feel very upset whenever I put myself in the shoes of the victims. I can't help but think what actually went through their minds when they see their life flashing past them. I love being in the outdoors, I love dragonboating, but I cannot imagine dying for it. No one wants to I believe, unless you are already extremely old and ready to leave this world. But we all love to live till a ripe old age and reflect back on our lives and share our stories with the next generation. 

All I wish for is that everyone live your life to your fullest, and live till a ripe old age to share your legacy. Peace.

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